“The word of God itself, apart from Jackie Hill, testifies that people can change,” she said. “So if the word of God is the word of God, then we need to deal with that and believe that it’s true. I think we’ve made God very little if we believe that he cannot change people. If he can make a moon, stars and a galaxy that we have yet to fully comprehend, how can he not simply change my desires?”
God does not leave you alone to change by yourself. His grace is there to overcome dark side of our nature.
His grace is stronger than our selfishness. It only means surrendering to it.